Simone de Beauvoir, Marguerite Yourcenar, Nathalie Sarraute, 2002. Conférence Élisabeth Badinter, Jacques Lassalle & Lucette Finas, ISBN 2717722203. McCann, Carole Ruth; Kim, Seung-Kyung, eds. (2003). "25 One Is Not Born a Woman". Feminist Theory Reader: Local and Global Perspectives. Psychology Press. p.249. ISBN 978-0-415-93153-3. OCLC 465003710. As individuals as well we question 'woman', which for us, as for Simone de Beauvoir, is only a myth. She said: 'One is not born, but becomes a woman.' Let's say it right away: every morning every week, I had to put this book in my bag because the train was entering the station. It was painful. So the only thing left for me to do, as I walked, was to go over what I had just read, to relate it to me, to my childhood possibly, and to associate these memories with what I knew about Simone de Beauvoir. The whole bourgeois context of this time gradually gave birth to De Beauvoir's feminist ideas, whose ambition to be someone was commensurate with his intelligence. In 1943, Beauvoir was suspended again from her teaching position when she was accused of seducing her 17-year-old lycée pupil Natalie Sorokine in 1939. [42] Sorokine's parents laid formal charges against Beauvoir for debauching a minor (the age of consent in France at the time was 13 until 1945, when became 15) [43] [44] and Beauvoir's licence to teach in France was revoked, although it was subsequently reinstated. [45]

Her 1970 long essay La Vieillesse ( The Coming of Age) is a rare instance of an intellectual meditation on the decline and solitude all humans experience if they do not die before about the age of 60. [55] Outre le célèbre Deuxième sexe (1949) devenu l'ouvrage de référence du mouvement féministe mondial, l'œuvre théorique de Simone de Beauvoir comprend de nombreux essais philosophiques ou polémiques. de Beauvoir, Simone (2020). Les inséparables (in French). Paris: L'Herne. ISBN 979-1031902746. Introduction. The first thing that strikes the reader of this engrossing book is that its author apparently possesses powers of total recall. She can remember minute details of events that occurred when she was three years old. Ward, Julie K. (November 1999). "Reciprocity and Friendship in Beauvoir's Thought". Hypatia. 14 (4): 36–49. doi: 10.1111/j.1527-2001.1999.tb01251.x. S2CID 146561354.

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Ever since, de Beauvoir has questioned face values and challenged beliefs. During World War I, she became a pacifist after seeing some of the horrors of war in her country. “Peace was more important to me than victory,” she recalled. In her teens, she had been taught “the vanity of vanity, the futility of futility.” This doctrine of meek acceptance, too, she discarded. At the same time, Simone becomes disillusioned with religion. She is frustrated that, as a woman, she does not have the same access to education that men do. On top of that, she is fed up with her instructors at Cours Desir, finding them stupid and overly concerned with affectations, traditions, and pointless customs.

Memoirs of A Dutiful Daughter is an autobiographical work in which Simone de Beauvoir details her formative years, focusing in particular on her awakening to herself as an individual in the context of conservative repression. The text starts, as autobiographies traditionally do, with an account of the author’s birth, which is very idealistic, complete with flowers and smiling onlookers. Born into an affluent Parisian family, the young de Beauvoir is well loved and even spoiled, but she is not altogether happy. From early on she has a sense of her own capabilities and begins to recognize the ways in which her society is designed to keep her from reaching her potential. de Beauvoir has Catholic virtues instilled in her by her mother and is made to attend Cours Desir, one of the leading Catholic girl’s schools in Paris, where she meets Zaza, who will act as her close friend and her foil during the course of her childhood and adolescence. This correspondence, let's talk about it, revolves around an aspect of the upper bourgeoisie forgotten today: marriages arranged around dowries and the respectability of families. Young girls suffering from thwarted and impossible loves, boys encouraged to get their hands on low-income young women before entering into marriage. In the 1920s, however relatively independent, passing aggregation, already a teacher, Simone still asked her parents permission to go to the theatre. Losing her virginity before marriage is unthinkable, and a girl still studying at 20 wastes her time. Who will want her?

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For me, beyond the pleasure of reading, ( because SB knows how to describe and make the atmosphere ) - it was an instructional book. Especially because it sets out clearly enough the development of a woman's consciousness in an oppressive bourgeois environment, and the ways in which this woman learns to avoid conflicts and to live under pressures that she did not recognize as such. Beauvoir was intellectually precocious, fueled by her father's encouragement; he reportedly would boast, "Simone thinks like a man!" [17] Because of her family's straitened circumstances, she could no longer rely on her dowry, and like other middle-class girls of her age, her marriage opportunities were put at risk. She took this opportunity to take steps towards earning a living for herself. [18] Beauvoir was raised in a Catholic household. In her youth, she was sent to convent schools. She was deeply religious as a child, at one point intending to become a nun. At age 14, Beauvoir questioned her faith as she saw many changes in the world after witnessing tragedies throughout her life. [23] Consequently, she abandoned her faith in her early teens and remained an atheist for the rest of her life. [24] To explain her atheist beliefs, Beauvoir stated, "Faith allows an evasion of those difficulties which the atheist confronts honestly. And to crown all, the believer derives a sense of great superiority from this very cowardice itself." [25] Middle years [ edit ] Jean-Paul Sartre and Simone de Beauvoir at the Balzac Memorial She contributed the piece "Feminism - Alive, Well, and in Constant Danger" to the 1984 anthology Sisterhood Is Global: The International Women's Movement Anthology, edited by Robin Morgan. [62] Born to a bourgeois (middle-class) Parisian family, de Beauvoir was raised by a devout Catholic mother (Francoise Brasseur de Beauvoir) and an atheist father (Georges Betrand de Beauvoir). Her father was a legal secretary who valued his daughter’s intellect at a time when a woman’s highest (and only) ambition in life was expected to be that of becoming a wife and mother. Even as a youngster, de Beauvoir questioned the double standards she witnessed in her society. She did not accept the fact that men were allowed to vote while women were not, and that men could have lovers but women could not. In fact, women in France were not given the right to vote until 1944. de Beauvoir came to understand that, as a child, she had absorbed the myths created by men to support a system that they dominated—and she would go on to live her life in a way that rebelled against these biased values.

Butler 1990, p.112 'One is not born a woman.' Monique Wittig echoed that phrase in an article by the same name, published in Feminist Issues (1:1).

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It made me smile, for example, a phrase that indicates how the mechanisms of an absurd guilt are constructed, which can make a woman's life an ordeal : Riding, Alan (14 April 1996). "The Odd Couple". New York Times . Retrieved 9 November 2021. Beauvoir duly seduced her and, the following year, introduced her to Sartre, then 33, who also took her to bed. By 1939, now studying under Sartre at the Sorbonne, Bianca was convinced that she was the key figure in an idealized love triangle. and make many new student acquaintances at the Sorbonne. She became fascinated with Robert Garric, a speaker of French Literature trying to bring culture to the lower classes after apparently giving up a promising career at the university, this she felt so strongly about and regularly sat in on some of his talks. Here Simone fell in with Jean Pradelle and Pierre Cairaut, dedicated left-wingers and a small group was set up to discuss various important matters concerning the social classes, possible war looming, as well as Philosophy. This would eventually lead her to cross paths with Jean-Paul Satre, and possibly the biggest moment in her life. Although she writes Literature took the place in my life that had once been occupied by religion: it absorbed me entirely, and transfigured my life (p.187) and while books play a certain part in her narrative she points out that it is far more the record of moods and prolonged feelings, partly perhaps because from about half way through she mentions that she started to keep a diary and no doubt her emotional state was something she wrote about, this stands in ironic counterpoint to her engagement in studying philosophy which does move her at so profound a level.