There are women who don’t want to be committed to a man at all and they should not be punished with a life of low wages and misery for their choice to stay single. Girls, young women, and sometimes even mothers were simply more honest and open about spanking than would be the case a decade later. Beyond the writings of Marquis de Sade, I first came across anal penetration as a young man living abroad in a predominantly Catholic country where other means of birth control were not available.

I was hurrying to get inside as he made usual small talk like “well hello daughter, how was your evening?Even if they publicly oppose it, and protest the very idea of being put over a man’s knee, most women are fascinated by spanking. My own wife has suffered from depression and in addition to counseling, getting medication, exercise, and rest, I added spanking. I saw comments not just from men suggesting the idea but also from women saying “oh yeah, I’m always anally raped as part of punishment…” If I’m sending a partner somewhere to learn about the DD dynamic I’m looking for, that is certainly not something I want being fed to him as acceptable.

These are just some ways he could work on keeping you submissive, and some tips in giving a spanking. On the other hand, as was the case with my then still teenaged future wife, there are times when seeking out a boyfriend to also serve as her disciplinarian can be appropriate.I don’t know if he would actually spank me and just hasn’t felt the timing to be right, if it’s something he thinks about but doesn’t think he can get away with doing, or if he’s clueless and would never spank. Because my wife was still a virgin when we started dating, I really didn’t know she was having a period until I flipped up her dress and lowered her panties.

Although my wife never liked them, she knew her bare bottom still needed an occasional thrashing to straighten her out. On the other hand, spanking tends to remain effective with girls because estrogen doesn’t produce any significant changes in how teenage girls responded to being disciplined over the parental knee. She does not work outside the home but they do have 4 children and she can be spanked by my son and is from time to time.So when Kenton and my parents made getting a spanking or a bit of stick a condition of marrying him, I saw no problem with it. The memoir itself relates to events that more properly happened in the 1960s but date from a marriage between an 18-year-old girl and a much older man in 1958. In fact, one could reasonably argue that a woman’s trust is intertwined with her perception of a man’s strength. Whether it was the man’s hand, or the woman’s hands at the man’s direction, didn’t make any significant difference in those days. Loss of control – I have relinquished control and will not easily regain it until he has spanked me.