Right, you know the position. Get into it. I am going to give you as many strokes as I see fit. You will count each stroke out loud, thank me for it, and then beg for the next. Understood?” A lot of what you said in this thread really resonated with me. To start with I had a Domme that was helping me find my femme side when I 1st discovered this facet of myself. I initially talked to her about sissies and she got very upset. Pretty much for what you mentioned about sissies being less of a man by being more of a woman. I asked her to give me some time to respond to what she said. A couple of weeks later I invited her over and showed her some Japanese anime about “Magical Girls” Sailor Moon or Pretty Sami are good examples. I talked to her about these series and how the main characters went through a magical transformation to become a hyper feminine superherion. Instead of viewing feminization as a something derogatory I wanted to embrace it as something empowering. I will never be a genetic female but I embrace my femininity and pursue it with a Gothic Lolita fashion style. ( No relation to Nabokov). I love my ruffles and take pride in the outfits I wear out in public. Just thought I’d share this with you. Many men get distracted as to what their goal is, perhaps by embarrassment at being submissive or the expectations of friends, family and society as to “what a man is”. True happiness comes from recognising that submission is natural and society expectations are toxic. Feminine husbands look so good and controlled in panties and especially bras, so its a natural thing to do.

Welcome to flrmalediscipline, A resource for dominant women wishing to train and condition their submissive male with loving discipline. You know it’s not necessary that a sissy cums ever. They can learn and it becomes normal for them. They adapt I am definately of the mindset that my husband's submission to me is a private matter. Our families and friends know only that he is respectful and extremely devoted to me. They do not know, nor do I wish them to know, that in our home he obeys my every command and has surrendered himself to my authority. To your question first .. I think that a lingerie modelling show with Alice and another girly friend staged just for your pleasure would be a wonderful thing.I am such a big fan of yours. You take such good care of your “sissy.” I know you don’t like that term, please forgive me. It’s just that this is how it seems to me, that your husband is a sissy, and for me, sissy isn’t a derogatory term. If in winter make a contests, the one with more femenine clothing accesories on wins. Every little detail counts, even a pad for the period counts. Fact. Each of the encounters took place as described just not all in the same evening. I changed everyone’s names for obvious reasons. Let him know when he has disappointed you – Be crystal clear about when he doesn’t meet your standards and has not pleased you and follow through with your own version of punishment.

Have the two sissies look and act as identical twins. They shower and shave each, do the other’s hair, make up and nails. Dress identical. Each consistently have their purse with, read articles on.being feminine then quiz the other, At all possible times the must be holding hands, curtseying etc. How is your female authority loving- if you are successfully immasculating him and treating him like an obedient dog or child.

Lady Alexa each of us have our own lives and own goals. Each to their own. From our perspective the submissive has to have the desire to please the mistress. It’s how you ‘train’ your submissive to have that desire is the issue. In our case it’s the knowledge that if I please the mistress I MAY get rewarded. Only may mind you. But it’s that ‘may’ that is our carrot. Next, you will have to obtain a larger paddle for more serious punishment, or as I call them, “stand-up sessions.” You can make your own, or if that isn’t feasible, can find a suitable alternative at any sporting goods store. Look for one that is shaped like a large ping-pony paddle and is used for a form of racquetball. Some even have holes drilled in them. The theory behind this is that the holes allow the air to rush through, therefore giving the paddle stroke more velocity. A handy substitute is a 24-inch wood ruler. Before using it, wrap about five inches of one end with a good non-slip tape to form a handle. She tells the girls that there is a saying among certain women of Africa that the best footstool is a man’s face. Today, take 15 minutes to sit down and compose a list of things you would want out of an FLR relationship. You’ll end up with 2 lists: what you want and what your husband wants.

Another thought would be a salon visit. Her they just opened them up a month or so ago. Again staff and customers have to stay masked. It might be a great opportunity for her to experience having hur brows groomed or having lash extensions done if she’s feeling really brave. It’s a lot for someone that doesn’t go out enfemme, but we live in uncertain times so why not embrace things to the fullest.

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Immerse the men into total feminization and activities. Weekly or monthly salon trips with complete feminization pampering. Katrina well said. For everyone ‘into’ an FLR relationship there are differing approaches and definitions. No two cases are the same. Not being the same isn’t a crime. Make him feel like a slave even when he is clothed. He is no longer allowed to wear his underwear, in fact, I suggest you throw away his underwear. From now on, he will wear either panties, or if you aren’t inclined to do this, wear humiliating underwear. Cafepress has some great options to keep your husband sober. Essay. Each sissy must write an essay in, say, half an hour. The subject: Why I am the Best Sissy… or Why I am not a Real Man. Kissing. The sissies are in love. To prove this they must kiss for a full two minutes non stop. The most romantically convincing kisser wins the points.

This post will accompany the live submissive/subMrs chat tonight. The chat covers the why and the what to D|s-M. If you want to know MORE about the HOWS to D|s-M then upgrade your membership to Premium subMrs. Next week Mr. Fox and I will be doing a “how to-Talk S.O.A.P.” for premium members, see the calendar. Come the summer holidays I was dressed female most of the time even to a swimsuit. They even got me sunbathing in a bikini. Could you comment and give me some suggestions for what I can get Alice and another sissy to do for my amusement?I think my experience in an FLR is pretty tame compared to the other posts but here goes: my wife loves to show all her gym friends how she can do anything she wants and I’ll obey. Through her zesty prose, she empowers women to own their dominance while guiding men to embrace humble servitude with gusto. Forget traditional norms – Cat's writing ignites a feisty journey towards a world where women reign supreme, and relationships bask in a harmonious matriarchy. My belief is that feminization gradually converts men into bisexuals and in some cases to gay. This happens because they access the feminine part of their intrinsic nature – this movement to bisesxual is inevitable because they want it. This desire is either suppressed or often a guilty secret. The movement is doubly inevitable when a Dominant Female simply insists that this will happen because it gives sissy permission to accept what sissy desires. The sheer “harmonious” coexistence with the other sissy will be extremely humbling for your husband. That sounds so decadent, having her service you, but not getting her reward. In love it. Claudia is non functional. We haven’t been intimate in over 3 years. I’m actively dating several gentlemen with Claudia’s approval. She doesn’t want me to suffer because of her shortcomings. I agree wholeheartedly! She loves to hear all about my dates when I get home and I’m more than happy to tell her everything. Karezza, huh? Sounds like fun! My little girl hasn’t been hard in years. She still ‘cums’ when penetrated, but never gets hard. She’s so small anyway, it really doesn’t matter. She produced our daughters and will never need sperm again. So her testicles are 100% expendable! She actually wants them gone as well. The hard part is getting it done. Most doctors won’t do it electively. We’ll find someone if we have to go to Thailand to do it!