Sexual excitation increases for both partners as a result of the new types of sexual experiences and there are discussions of actual sexual experiences. Apparently, these might be a few of the reasons your husband may want to share you with another man. 3. The pleasure of the taboo

They both separately attended tantric and relating workshops, coming to the joint conclusion that an open relationship was something they wanted. After the deed, we exchanged pleasantries and I get redressed. I thank the jazz man for a nice time and say it was lovely to have met him (manners go a long way in this life, my father always said, and what a strange thought to have entered my brain under even stranger circumstances). I hastily scribble my number on a pad of paper by the bedside table, both of us knowing it’s all for naught, and leave, buzzing with accomplishment. I'm wondering how many times they used this "scam" over the weekend? My Wife thinks I'm paranoid and doesn't think anything of this. Some men derive pleasure in not only seeing their wife being sexed by another man. These men don’t stop there. They feel the thrill more when the other man belittles them in the process.A typical example of a man in this category is Venus in Furs’s Leopold Von Sacher-Masoch, one of the 19 th century’s popular erotic novelists. As stated by Psychology Today Masoch posted an advert in a German newspaper asking for energetic men to befriend his wife. 6. To compensate for physical health challenges Your husband might be the type that simply derives motivation and some other gratifications known to him when he sees other men making love with you. This is further elaborated in David Ley’s Why would you do that? (Watch your wife with another man), some men actually opened up to him, saying because their wives are beautiful, they would prefer watching them being made love to by another man than watching some porn actress they don’t know. 2. Enhancement of sexual performance

if you collected some courage you should take his number and complete later on orcreate any easy excuse to friends and sneekout to another night club. Not only that, but we were also really horny for each other. Our hookup infused energy into our sex life, something new and different than what we’ve had so far, and we couldn’t keep our hands off each other. I was kinkier than ever before, and my husband reveled in it. I think your boyfriend and his buddy were drinking and hatched this stupid plan for a ***** and hoped you would go along with it while making it seem spontaneous. I start to get paranoid. Did he know? Did I have a scarlet letter embroidered on my dress or hovering above me in flashing lights? With the kid long gone in his cab, I jump on a mental soapbox and start a lecture about judgement and slut-shaming and how it’s 2014, let me live my life. Of course, really, there was no way he could have known the kind of night I had just had.

Things are going great in your relationship, you love each other very much, but then out of the blue, he suddenly tells you that it would turn him on if he saw you sleep with another man. It may sound harsh, but some men use this as an excuse to get out of the mess they have created by cheating on their wives. Then one day my phone rang, she asked if she could be late getting home. I asked why, she said he asked again and she would "maybe" like to, just to see what happens.This is the question, isn’t it? After all, is said and done, after you’ve read through my first wife-sharing experience, should you dare to try it? Lena agreed, adding: “The things I would tolerate coming out of male mouths specifically, but human mouths generally, when I was 18, 19, 20, even until I was 28, I was just kind of like ready to let anyone say anything to me and then all this rage flooded to the surface.” I didn’t keep any of this from my husband. Almost from day one, he was in the know about what I liked and what I craved in bed, and he wasn’t opposed to it. In fact, he was very direct in telling me how he’d like to see me with another man. Finding Out He Really Did Want To Share Me With Another Man