Finance is provided by PayPal Credit (a trading name of PayPal UK Ltd, Whittaker House, Whittaker Avenue, Richmond-Upon-Thames, Surrey, United Kingdom, TW9 1EH). There’s also a welcome look at how to deal with situations in which people may wrongly assign a ‘lower’ status to you based on the fact that you’re not a white man.

Our post brings you some words of honor and praise for women that can work magic when used in the right situation and at the right time. Just as I said these words out loud, the lighting rig sparked up out of nowhere and bathed the stage in a pool of illumination. I discovered Viv Groskop’s podcast ‘How to own the room’ during lockdown and have since listened to every single episode. When complimenting online, ensure to keep your statements short and crisp, and you may also add a few smilies.She is the host of the podcast How Own the Room, with over 2 million downloads and guests including Hillary and Chelsea Clinton, Margaret Atwood, Professor Mary Beard, Nigella Lawson and very occasionally a man like Brian Cox ( Succession's Logan Roy). Mine is being bathed naked like a baby by a Latvian sauna expert in a healing forest pool for an article on wild Latvia. When I’m with you, I don’t have to think about where our relationship is going because I’m happy just to be with you at that moment.

I really liked her lesson that confidence is not about what other people think of you, it’s seizing and creating your own status by teaching them how to treat you.If I cannot be with you, I can only hope whoever is lucky enough to be with you realizes your worth as a human being. Do you realize that conveying the profoundness of your love would demand centuries to describe its limitless enormity?

The wider issue — certainly in the UK — is an issue that news providers can’t fix: increasingly people don’t feel part of a community… So no wonder they want to disengage from news when it only frightens and depresses them and makes them feel more atomised. Charisma, effortless confidence, and being self-assured can complement each other, but they can also exist independently, which is what we discussed with Happy High Status author Viv Groskop. Get the magic now in book form - Katy Brand I recommend Viv Groskop to anyone wanting more self-confidence - Philippa Perry Reassuring, inspiring and wise - a practical handbook for anyone held back by self-doubt - Julia Samuel. You must honestly express how she, her actions, or her words make you feel to make her feel special.The kind of confidence that comes not from anything particular that you say or do but from how you hold yourself, your ‘status’.