He pulled me toward him as we made out. I couldn’t contain my excitement so I wrapped my leg around his hips to get on top of him and straddle him. As soon as I was on top of him he started running his hands all over my body. And certainly do NOT ignore this issue for some notion that you have "no say", that is only poison leading to resentment. I doubt she was trying to be malicious or start a fight, but this does give a GOOD reason to have a serious conversation. She may need to feel the "spark" of life again...to feel as if she is an individual. I'm not trying to okay her actions, but just giving an alternative. It is your body actually...if we are talking about a healthy, balanced marriage. The phrase "its my body" is more of a cope out, or a statement when there is abuse and the female feels the need to make a stand.

Doc Chocolate BBC interviews Angel Minx a hotwife and TheLion0412 a swinger turned content creator on sex, how they each individually got started in the Lifestyle and more! But your concerns about feeling left out of such an important decision, and how you want her to know she is beautiful to you as a treasure like she is, and you are very sensitive to anything that will affect that beauty. My (31F) partner (29M) and I started hotwifing a year ago and we’ve really been enjoying the lifestyle. We thought we’d share the story of our first encounter. I guess I feel “cheated on” by this intellectual/physical decision and really feel that this was a very selfish thing to do after 11 years of marriage, children, and a life together.….this is the women I love to love, thought her perfect beautiful body didn’t need to have a garden on the stomach. I’m having a real hard time dealing with it on a lot of levels…

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Doc Chocolate BBC and Amy Idaho the CA Unicorn Girl recount their FUN experience at PODBASH Las Vegas which was the 3rd annual event hosted by Brenna & Brian of Front Porch Swingers. This is the first of two parts covering our recount of this AWESOME Lifestyle event!! First, ignore all posts saying that it is "her body" and you have no say. Such typing shows disrespect to marriage, which is a union of faith between a man and a woman, and not simply two individuals being roomates or such things. Such talk is as a venomous poison that will lead only to resentment. Now for the issue at hand. Your woman is away alone for the first time. Maybe there is more to this tattoo story, maybe not. But to see this for what it is, the opportunity for you as the good man to show your woman how strongly you feel about her, and what she does to her body does concern you.

It is her body and her right to do with as she pleases. He has to choose to accept it or not accept it--that's the point. Yes, what she does with it affects him; she knows that. She chose to do something without consulting him--her absolute right. He does not have to like what she did, but he suggested he had a right to some control over her body. We all exercise complete control over our bodies every day--what we put in our mouths, whether or not we exercise, etc. Marriage does not negate the existence of a separate being, no matter how much you want to think it does. Either husband and wife respect each other as individuals, or they don't. Either they love each other AS individuals, or they don't. There should be a convo...and then maybe you should do something with just you and the wife. I know it will be hard to move past this GLARING yellow appendage...but this may be a "clue" that you wife needs to feel like an individual.The solution is this, to first get yourself calm and confident over the matter, to be able to communicate with clarity from strength and dignity, and not to "blow your top" or in some other way lose control of yourself. I wouldn’t have been against her getting a tattoo, if I were told about it up front and brought in on the decision of type, location, and size, even if over the phone; after all, im gonna be looking at it more than her probably….but nadda. I think I may have actually been really excited about it if we both agreed on what/where it would be. However, I just get to live with it now….that huge yellow flower on her hip/stomach. Why a yellow flower? I don’t know…she says it’s pretty (I would have been less mad if it had some sort of familial/personnel significance). To be honest, I am not all that impressed by, nor “turned on” by this large yellow blossoming flora on her stomach. I haven’t told her that…not sure if I could. Mentioned on this Episode: Swinger Elle ~ Mr Richardson ~ Goddess Jade Li ~ Pedro and Tink from Kitchen Sink, ENM and Kink Podcast